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Khamis, Mei 20, 2010

10 Sign He Ready To Commit...

Wondering if he’s the one? Well, if you want to be absolutely certain that you can take the next step, then here are 10 signs to look out for to check if he’s ready to commit!

1. It’s out in the open…
If your partner is expressive about how much he loves you and seriously talks about how much he wants to be with you - then that’s a really good sign! Lucky you! Most relationships don’t get this far!

2. You’re not a secret!
You know his friends, his family, his office colleagues and just about everyone he associates with! He doesn’t want to keep you hidden like a nasty secret. He’s confident that you’re the one he wants to be seen with.

3. Availability is the key!
No matter how many times you call him in a day, he loves talking to you. That means he is ready to invest time - no matter how much work he has! But don’t go overboard with your calls!

4. His plans include YOU…
When he talks to his family or friends about his weekend plans he almost always talks about you! You are a vital part of his life - and he wants the world to know it!

5. No guessing about the future…
When he discusses his future goals and plans he certainly has you in mind! So if you hear him using the word ‘we’ - you know you have your man forever! If he sees a future with you, then that’s half the job done!

6. You’re a couple…
Well, that’s his way of finding excuses to be around you. Now if this goes on well beyond the first year of dating then you’re on safe ground! He’s really ‘into you’ and that’s good news!

7. Best friends for life…
He shares his innermost secrets and thoughts with you. You’re his confidant and best friend. He trusts you with his life. When you don’t have to pry out information, then you know this guy really wants to be candid with you.

8. Your interests matter…
If your man goes the extra mile to find out what you like to eat, which movie you like to see, what kind of clothes you like to wear - then he’s really interested! Let him pamper you so give in and enjoy being treated like a queen.

9. He respects your decisions…
If you say ‘Honey I don’t like to watch football on TV’ and he respects that, then you know he respects you as well. Respect for your partner’s decisions is vital for a steady commitment!

10. He is secretly checking your ring size!
Here is the clincher! Do we need to say it? There’s definitely marriage on his mind! If he’s checking your ring size it means he will propose - very soon!

So now you have it - the 10 signs that show he is truly committed. Enjoy the romance! Savour the excitement. This one’s meant to last a lifetime!

And remember that:
While there’s no specific age at which men are ready to marry (nor do they all mature at the same rate), after a while, going from one superficial relationship to another begins to lose its allure, and they crave a deeper kind of bond with someone… Though bachelorhood can be fun and exciting, it’s often emotionally unfulfilling. And ultimately, at some point, most men want to have that soul-mate connection.

Khamis, Mei 06, 2010

Mantera Beradu


<Masih belum sempurna>

Gerakkan Hati…hati gerakkan…
Pandanglah aku...aku lah dia...

Kulitku tebal...ku kebal...ingatku kebal
Hanya berbual makan angin kembung perut mual
Resah dan tidak senang...hidup tak pernah lenang
Ku schizo paranoia takut pecah tembelang

Pecah tembelang…peta dah hilang
Bangau dah pulang…suara sumbang

Lidahku kaku tak selicin kuku
Teman baikku buku
Bini ku pena.. tak pernah lena
Aku suka mengintai pantang ditenung
Berakhir pertelingkahan dalaman
Pasti belum

Ikut gerak hati...pena melayang
Dilihat dua layang pandang
Tak lah sekarang
Takat meradang
Tanya...abang gedang, apa barang?
Badan macam badang
Main acah belakang parang

Kuhunuskan keris musuh ada pistol
Tradisi kekalkan adaptasi harus betul
Tujuh baris keramat tujuh garis penamat
Baik berpada biar jahat asal selamat

Ramai saudaraku yang baik telah dipijak

Awan mendung yang berarak
Bawa tangis bawa resah
Rebah rindu yang terkumpul
Semua birat dan kalimah
Semua janji yang terikat
Lebur disisimu

Yo! ijazah terbaik datangnya dari jalanan
Dari pengalaman bercakap dan bersalaman
Konflik motivasi cuba medatasi
Positif dan benci jadi inspirasi pagi

Peduli itu interpretasi basi pekakkan sebelah
Halang biar keduanya muka cantik
Soalan bodoh yang ditanya jadi melodinya
Lebih hina dari zina

Lu bikin dosa ku bikin prosa
Testosterone testarosa
Cita-cita sosa KL KL kosa nostra
Jalan berliku ku harung roller coaster
Gah sentosa tiada penyesalan
Luas pandangan jauh dah berjalan
Tak sempurna masih ada kejanggalan
Gagal merancang, merancang kegagalan

Awan mendung yang berarak
Bawa tangis bawa resah
Rebah rindu yang terkumpul
Semua birat dan kalimah
Semua janji yang terikat
Lebur disisimu

Kucing bawa tidur rimau bawa igau
Masuk tempat orang bawa otak bukan pisau

Naik bukit angkuh cakap ayah jangan risau
Turun bukit pucat dengar tiga miaww
Kucing bawa tidur rimau bawa igau
Masuk tempat orang bawa otak bukan pisau
Tolak pintu gua tiga kerat tenaga
Kosong tak dijaga sampai datang tiga naga
Ingat nak berlaga tapi tak kan boleh menang
Menang dengan otak tak mesti dengan pedang

Sebelum jadi naga, ikan koi renang renang
Kura-kura salah jawab pantun, naik berang
Panggil lima kawan atau biar pergi laju
Risaukan pekara remeh kita tak akan maju
Muka sama hijau hati siapa tahu
Merah dah menyala pasti mati siapa mahu
Gagap tiga kali bercakap benar saja
bulan terang ramai yang keluar buat kerja

Panjat pokok buluh cari tokong air terjun
Naik sampai nampak dah terpegun turun
Tiga ular ikut lompat atau paut
Kalau terus mati jika belok maut

Awan mendung yang berarak
Bawa tangis bawa resah
Rebah rindu yang terkumpul
Semua birat dan kalimah
Semua janji yang terikat
Lebur disisimu

Puisi hati mu…hati mu puisi
Palu hati ku palu hatiku

Kulit tak besalin walau saling ganti baju
Pandang sini pandang sini
Ku berbahasa baku kata kata nahu
Himpun jadi satu
Mantera beradu dengan irama dan lagu

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Ahad, November 15, 2009

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